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OPI Nail Color
- By Tracy Ames
- Published Today
To the young lady at Victoria’s Secret who wanted to know what shade of nail color I was wearing…its OPI, Bogota Blackberry. It’s one of my favorite shades. The other info is below! Start to Finish (base coat, top coat and strengthener) and their Rapid Dry and Chip Skip are also are good investments. It’s worth it and it’ll hold your color in place for a couple of weeks.
I hope this helps. Enjoy!
"Fox & Hound" A Change is Gonna Come!
- By Tracy Ames
- Published Yesterday
Hey guys/gals, Thank you so much for the compliments on “Fox & Hound”. I will try to return your emails however I currently have 6341 unread emails in my inbox. Please comment on the story itself…as you can see I’m overwhelmed with emails.
Okay, back to the story. I’m doing two different things here. “F&H” will be two stories in one…so you’ll see Scott and Monica’s relationship develop and to a lesser degree Sharon and Grant’s.
The other difference will be seen later now. I’m not telling so get over it!! Ha!
Tracy
My Birthday Party!
- By Tracy Ames
- Published Yesterday
You all know how much I dislike surprises and Greg is horrible at keeping them under wraps. We have a “No lying” thing about our marriage which hinders his secret keeping ability. Quick note: Birthdays in our home are a huge deal. We go all out.
This year he surprised me. I thought I knew what he had up his sleeve when the caterer called to confirm his order and when BC came home after their outing and spilled the beans about my gift. I thought he’d planned a big formal affair because both our families were flying in, siblings included…and our friends.
Boy was I wrong.
Yesterday evening, everyone got dressed…I mean dressed to the nines. Even BC had a suit on. I’m thinking, “Okay, we’re going NYC or to Greg’s club.”
Wrong again!
We hopped in the cars (about 10 in all) and drove two houses down to our neighbors. At this point I’m dying laughing but there was more. It wasn’t a huge catered affair; it was a fried chicken eating “Pass the hot sauce” throw down! We had a blast: music, kids running around, talking loud and laughing. Eventually, the other neighbors and local friends came over (even the gnome was there!) and it got out of control.
I left briefly to call Stephanie Morris and tell her of my utter bamboozlement…she laughed at me too.
I’m always making fun of WASP because its fun and they make it so easy with their finger sandwiches and ascots, but I have to admit: They can cutup when they want too. No, Greg didn’t dance this year, thankfully, but it was probably the best birthday I’ve had in years. And having our families and friends in town made it even better.
We had so much fun last night and everyone finally woke up about 4:30 this afternoon. Even Daniel and Greg (the early birds) passed out all day. Perfect, absolutely perfect! So I’m giving up my snooping ways and letting Greg keep birthday related secrets. He did a good job this year.
Love you!
Fox & Hound: Part Four is Available!
- By Tracy Ames
- Published March 9, 2010
Hey,Fox & Hound: Part Four is now available.
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IT'S MY BIRTHDAY!!!!
- By Tracy Ames
- Published March 9, 2010
Hey Folks! It’s my birthday!!!!! I’m 36yrs old and loving it! The caterer ruined Greg’s surprise party by calling the house instead of his cell phone. And then BC told me what Greg had bought me. Poor Greg, they screwed this birthday up big time.
But I’m happy. I have my family, my health, my loyal fans, a new book dropping next month and three more on the way, and a truly wonderful life.
The March 10th is the first anniversary of “Seduce Me”. Wow, looking back over the past year…wow, that’s all I can say. It’s had its ups and downs—there were times I thought about putting my pen down and walking away. But I would’ve missed all of THIS.
The site has become more than a place to read stories. It’s become a place where we meet to talk about everything under the sun without judgment or prejudice. We’ve become a family made up of entirely different people from differing backgrounds, all with strong beliefs and opinions.
You guys keep me inspired, I love hearing from you, all of us do. You all have been there with me through this marvelous journey and I couldn’t have done it without you. You’ve seen me at my best and my worst and inexplicably you’re still here by my side. It makes the long hours worthwhile.
I’ve made new friends and lost a few along the way. I have opened up and shared pieces of my life for which I’d reserved for my inner circle. You guys know way too much about my crazy life; Greg; the kids; the pets and you’ve patiently listened to my rants.
I want to give a special thanks to my blogger followers. You guys have gone out of your way to promo my work and I thank you from the bottom of my heart.
Thanks everyone for your support.
Cheers,
Tracy
Is Oral Sex Cheating?
- By Tracy Ames
- Published March 8, 2010
Hey Folks, I was chatting with a group of girlfriends this afternoon and the questioned was raised:
Is oral sex cheating?
To me, cheating is anything you can’t tell your spouse about but that's me. I do consider oral sex cheating because it’s granting someone other then your spouse and doctor access to your naughty bits.
Call me old fashion but that’s how I see it. It’s different if you’re in an open marriage or bisexual and your spouse is fully aware of what’s happening. But if they’re in the dark then it’s cheating.
Look, I love cunny and I probably should teach classes on deepthroating however I’m not going there with anyone except Greg Ames.
Some argue: since there’s no intercourse, there’s no sex.
Um, I’m sorry but if either of you orgasm then its sex. Finger diddle, tongue diddle and/or hand wank…its still sex if either of you orgasm. Even if you don’t orgasm ,it’s still a violation to allow another person besides those therefore mentioned access to the goodies.
If Greg came home and said, “Trace, I let someone wank me off. But don’t worry, we didn’t have sex.” I’d be upset.
I’d like to hear your opinion.
2nd Chapter of " ...Sailed Upon The Ocean Blue"-Is Up!
- By Olga Coleman-Williams
- Published March 7, 2010
I had to give "Lion's" a little break. Don't Worry! It's marinating. So, I thought I would turn some attention to "Sailed." Please take a look and let me know what you think. Please Note: I just added a page to the original isntallment. So everyone should find the new stuff there. I would do that hyperlink thingy, but I am technically challenged.
Thanks! Olga
Big News! Mr. Dedan Tolbert is Here!
- By Tracy Ames
- Published March 5, 2010
It’s now 1:00am and I crawled out of bed to give you the news. I've been dying to tell you!I was granted the pleasure of interviewing Dedan Tolbert, award-winning author and host of “The Dedan Tolbert Show”. Yes, I got the man himself! Once you read the interview, you’ll see why this is a huge deal.
I’ll be posting the interview Saturday but in the meantime please checkout his site and he current release entitled “What Women Need To Know...But Don't Want To Hear”.
He's an intelligent, well spoken man, and one I'm proud to call a friend. You don’t want to miss the interview or the book, trust me! So get the word out, let everyone you know where to find it and I'll chat again Saturday!
Nektar Toy is Here To Serve You!
- By Precious A Powell
- Published March 4, 2010
Hi guys! I opened Nektartoys.com, an online Adult Toy Store, and people have asked, why? "What's the meaning behind the name and why open the store at all."
Why the name?
I love peaches, I love making my lover happy, and all relationships could use a little nectar from time to time.
Why Use Adult Sex Toys?
Why not? People get bored with their looks and change their hair color, why not spruce up our sex lives? I plan on going to school to be a sexual therapist (when I can afford it) but in the meantime, I'm offering my expertise via my store, lol.
After talking to a friend who was having "g-spot issues" I knew I'd found my calling. Tragically, some women can't find theirs and our poor men don't have a freakin' clue where it is. But that's another blog post.
Okay, I can't leave this subject alone. It's dear to my heart. I'll just say my friend’s problem can be easily fixed by purchasing a G-spot vibrator. There, I said it. Moving on.
When I opened the store, I received criticism from all angles: It’s nasty, it’s dirty and etc. But for every critic I’m sure there are ten people who are thankful I’m here and are enjoying the products I provide. Look, I am always happy, my toys never leave me and they never refuse me, so negative criticism of sex toys baffles me
Besides, some toys can give pleasure to both partners! For instance, cock rings can and have proven to contribute to stronger erection and longer intercourse and what woman/man wouldn’t like this?
I believe all females love pleasure. I have over five thousand items on my site I have spend time and energy buying that damn well ensure it! I have DVDS, Movies, Books, Lotions, Games, Novelties, Garments, Furniture…you name it, it’s there or I can find it. I could go on forever. There’s something there to send everyone to sleep with a smile on their face. Men: There are penis and testicles stimulators. I didn’t forget about you.
If you’re interested in appeal, I have that as well. Checkout the specially designed “Dirty Girl” as well as the other “Tracy” items I’ve created for her. Her favorites are the messenger bags and tees but there’s plenty to choose from and more to come.
My site is up and running and I’ve decided to not listen to the haters out there. Take that!
Come check me out!
www.nektartoys.com
IT'S A RANT!!!!!!
- By Tracy Ames
- Published March 3, 2010
Sorry Folks but I have to rant. Today, the question was asked: If the man of your dreams had bad credit, would you think twice about marrying him?
My answer was yes because it may be a sign of irresponsibility. This in no way implied I was talking about money. What I was saying is, if the man of my dreams really was the MAN of my dreams, he would be responsible enough to take care of himself (aka pay his bills) before I came in the picture.
How can a man better demonstrate his manliness and ability to provide for his family then to FIRST take care of himself!?
I come from a large family of strong men who not only provided for the people under their roofs but the family as a whole. So excuse me if I feel a man should be forward thinking, not living in the here and now, and mapping out some shit. A real man thinks things through and budgets his time and money for the benefit of his family.
That’s what being a man is about!
It’s not about having the newest and flashiest items. It’s about plotting and planning and making sure you’re in a position provide for the people who’ll depend on you.
It’s not about making babies or having a “good woman” in your corner. It’s about standing on your own regardless of who has your back or tries to “keep you down”! No one can keep you down without a fight so don’t waste your energy on complaining, get up! Pay your bills! Be the man your future family needs you to be!
And women: Stop letting folks tell you you’re wrong for having your beliefs. There’s nothing wrong with looking out for your future. Yes, marriage has its ups and downs, but if before the marriage takes place a man is struggling to take care of himself, why the HELL would you jump head first into that mess?! What, so you can sit in the dark together?
Again, it’s not about money, it’s about being responsible. He knew the bills were coming in…why didn’t he take precautionary measures? That shit didn’t sneak up on him!
I look at my younger brother, Stan, as a classic example of what a young man should be. By the time he was 24yrs old he owned two homes, three cars, had one degree and working on a second. And he did all of this while working 10 hours a day. He refused to get serious with anyone or marry before he was in a position to give his wife what she deserved.
And you know what, he did. He waited to get married and they’re happy together. And he wasn’t a ‘playa’, he doesn’t have any children (even to this day), and no crazy women kicking out his headlights.
It’s about making preparation and putting yourself on a proper footing before you bring other folks into your shit.
RANT OVER!!