Don't Analyze Your Woman
- By Tracy Ames
- Published August 23, 2009
Tracy Ames
Mrs. Ames is an international bestselling author of interracial erotic fiction and a former columnist for several newsletters and magazines.
A native of the San Francisco Bay Area, Tracy currently split time between CT & New York City with her husband, children and a host of pets.
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Hey Everyone,
I found this piece by David Deida and I wanted to pass it along to you. I thought it was rather interesting. Enjoy...
The amazing thing is this: 90% of a woman’s emotional problems stem from feeling unloved. So don’t stand back and analyze her, like a doctor diagnosing a patient, or like a therapist questioning a client. Give her your love - the same love that is motivating your questioning - immediately and unmistakably.
Walk over to her, look deeply into her eyes, hold her and stroke her, tell her how much you love her, smile, hum her favorite song and dance with her, and chances are, her emotional problem will evaporate. She may still have some situation to deal with, and you may be able to help her with that, but the emotional aspect will be converted to love.
It is a very rare occasion when your analysis of her mood relieves her of it. Most often, your analysis and attempts to fix her will just piss her off more. Ask her if she would rather you gave her love or analyzed her when she is upset. It’s so easy to give her love; it’s what both of you really want anyway. But as a man you are more likely to try to fix her. That’s exactly not what she wants, and exactly what will make the situation worse, most of the time.
- David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man
I found this piece by David Deida and I wanted to pass it along to you. I thought it was rather interesting. Enjoy...
The amazing thing is this: 90% of a woman’s emotional problems stem from feeling unloved. So don’t stand back and analyze her, like a doctor diagnosing a patient, or like a therapist questioning a client. Give her your love - the same love that is motivating your questioning - immediately and unmistakably.
Walk over to her, look deeply into her eyes, hold her and stroke her, tell her how much you love her, smile, hum her favorite song and dance with her, and chances are, her emotional problem will evaporate. She may still have some situation to deal with, and you may be able to help her with that, but the emotional aspect will be converted to love.
It is a very rare occasion when your analysis of her mood relieves her of it. Most often, your analysis and attempts to fix her will just piss her off more. Ask her if she would rather you gave her love or analyzed her when she is upset. It’s so easy to give her love; it’s what both of you really want anyway. But as a man you are more likely to try to fix her. That’s exactly not what she wants, and exactly what will make the situation worse, most of the time.
- David Deida, The Way of the Superior Man
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4 Responses to "Don't Analyze Your Woman" 
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said this on 24 Aug 2009 2:35:01 PM CDT
Absolutely. When I came it, I knew it would strike accord with most of the readers, male as well as female.
My Greg was a prime example of a fixer. He had to fix everything so I'd be happy. But when I was pregnant that chnaged everything. It wasn't the fact that he run around like a chicken with its head cut off during the last trimester...it was the days when he'd take the day off and stay in bed with me that I remember most fondly. So a note to all the male readers: Just be there...approach with care but be there regardless. |
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said this on 24 Aug 2009 1:35:12 PM CDT
There are several men that I am going to send this article to. All I can say is that it is the truth. A lot of issues in many households could be solved, if this advice was taken to heart.
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said this on 26 Aug 2009 3:24:27 AM CDT
Another good advices for me to (hopefully) use in the future, when the time comes.
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said this on 26 Aug 2009 8:43:27 PM CDT
Yes, it's very good advise to follow. Your time will come soon enough.
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