I decided to dedicate this post to the fine art of getting ‘it’ up. So what is ‘it’? Well is not what you’re thinking. We’re going to take this in two parts.

Part 1: Get your confidence (it) up to approach the man you want!

Ok, here goes. Ladies listen to me; it’s not as hard as you’re making it out to be. Men are men. Men have been the same since they were 14 years old. As long as you have the proper plumbing as a female we’re all the same to them. Some may say they want the skinny blond with the fake boobs but to be honest that’s just a fantasy (much like their 10 inch cock), it’s all in their head and they know it.

Men do want a woman who can think for herself and act without being prompted (unless he’s into S&M then you can disregard what I just said and get to lickin’ his boots).

Let’s assume you are single. You’re getting ready to go out dancing with your girlfriends. First things first, it doesn’t matter what your body type at the time you walked into your shabby closet; by the time you leave it you should be a size 2 in your head. Put on some of your favorite booty shaking music, get in that closet and pick out a something that makes you feel sexy. Stop dressing for females! You’re not trying to get them in bed (no lesbians, you can switch the female for male in the last sentence).

Think about what you say and how you would act if you weren’t so afraid of what anyone else what think. Forget your Momma! She has her man now it’s time to go and get yours!

My point is this:

Men like confidence. If you don’t have it, fake it until you make it! The more you portray yourself as confidence the more you will be. Not cocky…confidence. A few years ago I dated a super attractive guy that I met at a gathering of stunning women where I only knew two people. I was surprised that he asked me out! I wasn’t the most beautiful and wasn’t showing the most skin at the party. He said what drew him to me was that when I walked into the party I acted as if I knew everyone there and introduced myself, I didn’t go sit in the corner and nurse my drink. Men notice these things and if you’re sitting around with the same group of people all night it makes it difficult for them to approach you. Move about eventually your paths will cross and it won’t come off like you were stalking him…you were being friendly.