“Those Eyes” A male’s prospective
- By Tracy Ames
- Published September 14, 2009
Tracy Ames
Mrs. Ames is an international bestselling author of interracial erotic fiction and a former columnist for several newsletters and magazines.
A native of the San Francisco Bay Area, Tracy currently split time between CT & New York City with her husband, children and a host of pets.
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Good afternoon Everyone,
Sorry for not replying to all of your emails personally however my mailbox is full, I get it...you liked “Those Eyes”. But I must admit, it’s the success has left me utterly baffled. It was a short story about cunnilingus; there was no penis involved. I understand why the ladies enjoyed the story; finding a man that can have you speaking in dead languages is next to impossible.
But what of the guys who loved it? I have a ton of update request from male readers. WTF!? Honestly, I don’t know what to make of it. So in an effort to better understand the male POV, I reached out to one of IRE.net's regulars, Mark P., to offer his insight:
"Okay ladies. I’ve been asked to give the male perspective on why “Those Eyes” is such a hot story for us. I understand that the women love the fact that the sexual satisfaction in the story is all about them. That’s also the reason it’s hot to me. I’ll be very blunt. I will not use any clinical terms.
I love eating pussy, the wetter the better. That’s all there is to it. I love it. I get off on it, I’m addicted. It turns me on more than getting a blow job or getting laid.
There’s just something about pleasing the woman you love and making sure she is 100% satisfied. I love hearing my girl moan in pleasure, feeling her hands in my hair and her thighs around my head in ecstasy. The fact that she’s getting off, gets me off. I could rant on for pages about this subject but I’ll spare you. Just thought a little view from the male side was in order.
Mark P.
aka: The American “Mark”
So there ya go! Men like to read about other men pleasing us. I’m still baffled.
Tracy
Sorry for not replying to all of your emails personally however my mailbox is full, I get it...you liked “Those Eyes”. But I must admit, it’s the success has left me utterly baffled. It was a short story about cunnilingus; there was no penis involved. I understand why the ladies enjoyed the story; finding a man that can have you speaking in dead languages is next to impossible.
But what of the guys who loved it? I have a ton of update request from male readers. WTF!? Honestly, I don’t know what to make of it. So in an effort to better understand the male POV, I reached out to one of IRE.net's regulars, Mark P., to offer his insight:
"Okay ladies. I’ve been asked to give the male perspective on why “Those Eyes” is such a hot story for us. I understand that the women love the fact that the sexual satisfaction in the story is all about them. That’s also the reason it’s hot to me. I’ll be very blunt. I will not use any clinical terms.
I love eating pussy, the wetter the better. That’s all there is to it. I love it. I get off on it, I’m addicted. It turns me on more than getting a blow job or getting laid.
There’s just something about pleasing the woman you love and making sure she is 100% satisfied. I love hearing my girl moan in pleasure, feeling her hands in my hair and her thighs around my head in ecstasy. The fact that she’s getting off, gets me off. I could rant on for pages about this subject but I’ll spare you. Just thought a little view from the male side was in order.
Mark P.
aka: The American “Mark”
So there ya go! Men like to read about other men pleasing us. I’m still baffled.
Tracy
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28 Responses to "“Those Eyes” A male’s prospective" 
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said this on 14 Sep 2009 12:15:35 AM CDT
Well I'm not, Tracy.
Hey Mark what's your number my little sensous cinnamon roll? |
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said this on 14 Sep 2009 12:22:11 AM CDT
Girl, Mark will have you talking in tongues.
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said this on 14 Sep 2009 8:37:38 AM CDT
Well we all need to step outside of our self every once in a while...
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said this on 14 Sep 2009 1:32:37 AM CDT
I completely agree with Mark. One of the reasons I have a lover as well as my wife is that my wife doesn't like me going down on her. My lover on the other hand, loves it and I actually prefer it to intercourse (although a slow, long fuck makes me very happy too) and can happily spend hours between a hot girls legs.
Last night at the swing club, I fisted my lover and made her squirt while an audience watched and actually got a round of applause earlier on after the noise that came from her. That tactic massage course is really paying off I can tell you. She loves my tongue lapping away on her clit gently as I have three fingers massaging her G-spot and my pink finger teasing her arsehole. |
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said this on 14 Sep 2009 1:39:57 PM CDT
Well, um, okay. I don't really know what to say. Um...just gonna leave that bit alone.
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said this on 14 Sep 2009 1:22:25 PM CDT
i just cream my underwear. No joke. Both Marks are responsible for this. LOL!!!!! Damn, i'm at work....
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said this on 14 Sep 2009 1:42:32 PM CDT
Two Marks on one page equals bad news. We have to keep them apart. But it's good to see more male readers coming from behind the rocks. I guess you ladies aren't so scary after all.
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said this on 14 Sep 2009 2:14:56 PM CDT
You're right Tracy. I was starting to wonder about our male counterparts. We are a bold bunch.
Then again a woman afraid of a good orgasm is one who hasn't had one. Now finding a man to give you one... |
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said this on 14 Sep 2009 2:56:19 PM CDT
Yeah, we'll have to reel them in.
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said this on 14 Sep 2009 5:54:00 PM CDT
Tell me about it. Good thing I like fishing...
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said this on 14 Sep 2009 6:09:20 PM CDT
Heidi, hon...you have to stop reading this smut at work. You know what it does to you. LOL!
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said this on 15 Sep 2009 12:00:32 PM CDT
Lol, i know, i can't help it. Keeps me from kicking my boss's ass( hunk) but an a hole....
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said this on 19 Sep 2009 11:23:19 PM CDT
Thanks for the idea Heidi! I'm going to pen a story for you based on this concept.
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said this on 14 Sep 2009 4:00:49 PM CDT
Stephanie I can honestly say that no one has ever called me a "sensuous cinammon roll" before lol. Definitely a first for me!
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said this on 14 Sep 2009 5:53:25 PM CDT
LOL! Well Mark, you know us "Southern" women have a way with words. I have plenty more for you, just lend me your ear. Well, just for starters...
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said this on 15 Sep 2009 4:08:11 PM CDT
Yes I know all about you Southern Belles. I was born and bred in North Carolina and everyone else in my family is from south Georgia. Definitely quite familiar with the Southern culture! Hang on while I take off my NASCAR t shirt...
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said this on 15 Sep 2009 6:11:27 PM CDT
Now don't do that to me Mark. You know us Southern women like it when men walk around shirtless...well providing they have the body to...
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said this on 15 Sep 2009 4:57:18 PM CDT
Ha! See, I'm not the only one who likes NASCAR. Wait, he is White so that doesn't really prove anything. Nevermind..:)
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said this on 15 Sep 2009 6:21:13 PM CDT
"I love eating pussy, the wetter the better. That’s all there is to it." Damn Mark, i can't stop reading that line!
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said this on 15 Sep 2009 9:04:50 PM CDT
Heidi, you just had to single out that line didn't you? I almost had myself under control again. Thanks Heidi! Thanks a lot!
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said this on 15 Sep 2009 9:41:28 PM CDT
I know! Leave it to Heidi to pull that one out of the bag. Poor poor Greg, he never sees it coming **shaking head**
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said this on 15 Sep 2009 9:55:15 PM CDT
lol, sorry Stephanie and Tracy. i couldn't help myself. you guys don't know what that line did to me ..hm hm hm
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said this on 16 Sep 2009 10:36:51 AM CDT
Oh no Heidi! As a women believe me Tracy and I know exactly what it did. Even gave me a little writing motivation. Had a to let off a little steam...
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said this on 15 Sep 2009 6:32:13 PM CDT
I got ya back Mark. That's the same reason I liked the story. Pleasing my woman is more enjoyable then getting laid. Its a man thing I guess.
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said this on 15 Sep 2009 9:03:31 PM CDT
Oh no Antonio,
Believe me it is a woman thing too! At least as long as the man knows what he is doing... |
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said this on 17 Sep 2009 8:18:05 PM CDT
lol ladies you flatter me. Trace... can't say I love the "beg me" playlist. Some of it's okay. Let me tell you my playlist when I was writing my male perspective:
1. Baby Come on Home - Led Zeppelin 2. Since I've Been Loving You - Led Zeppelin 3. Take me With U - Prince and the Revolution 4. The Beautiful Ones -- Prince and the Revolution 5. You Shook Me - Led Zeppelin 6. Beth - KISS and most important... 7. Givin' the Dog a Bone - AC/DC :) |
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said this on 17 Sep 2009 10:04:57 PM CDT
I think it's pretty safe to say that Zeppelin stays in the mix regardless of what story I'm writing. It's a no-brainer. Why state the obvious?
"The Beautiful Ones" I don't find so pretty. Don't care for the song. But I do like "Givin the Dog a Bone"! That's hot. The "Beg Me" Playlist was a freakin' journey and a half. This story has had me twisted! Toss in the fact that I have the flu and you got yourself a cry-o-thon...:( |
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said this on 21 Sep 2009 8:23:12 PM CDT
I always try to state the obvious. must be in my blood. Like the great Bon Scott said: "I got the devil in my blood, tellin' me what to do... and I'm all ears"
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