So it’s my husband’s birthday and we go out for fondue with a group on friends and a few hangers on (friends of friends). So we did the whole round robin “what do you do” deal. My husband said he’s a lawyer and I tell the, few who don’t know, that I’m a writer of erotica and I gave them a couple of my titles. Everyone face lit up.

One of the ladies, Kaye, says, “Oh my goodness. I’ve read your stuff. I liked it; I think you’re the reason for my third son.”

Unsure how to response to assumption that I may or may not be the reason she’ll be paying out of the nose for college or how to make this situation as uncomfortable for her as it was for me short of kicking her in the leg, I said thank you and moved on to the next comment.

“Girl your sex life must be banging because there’s no way you can write like that and not be breaking headboards.” Kaye’s husband Darien chimes in.

Now you know what I’m thinking ‘I’m going to steer clear of these two for the rest of the night’. I turn to my husband and he’s blushing which makes everyone laugh. Hell my writings make him look like the man!

The on going term here is this; people think that just because you write it that means you’re living it. Here’s the cold hard dirty truth, are you ready?

The truth is, yes we have a very exciting and health sex life. He was, for the most part, the bases for my character Nick in Seduce Me. A lot of women have asked about this character and I point to my husband. The funny thing is when they meet him you’d thing they’d try to hit on him but they don’t. I think this is because ‘Nick’ was so devoted to ‘Ali’ that women don’t even attempt to step to him knowing they don’t stand a chance.

Well ya’ll I’m going to bed with my ‘Nick’. Goodnight….;-)