My Anniversary: WASPy Over-Privileged Guilt (Atonement)
- By Tracy Ames
- Published October 11, 2009
Tracy Ames
Mrs. Ames is an international bestselling author of interracial erotic fiction and a former columnist for several newsletters and magazines.
A native of the San Francisco Bay Area, Tracy currently split time between CT & New York City with her husband, children and a host of pets.
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My anniversary is this month so you know what that means. Yep, it’s gift giving time. But here’s the thing: we’ve been together so long there’s nothing left to give. My mother-in-law gave us an early gift; we got a chef that comes in twice a week and weekends for the next year.
Now, I can see most of you frowning but this gesture reproduced me to puffy ugly face tears because I’m a cook. I love cooking however I’ve been so stressed out with writing, teaching Kink courses and other general day-to-day BS….its been difficult to whip up a three course meal. In most homes under normal circumstances, this wouldn’t be a problem however this is Casa de Ames….we ain’t normal!
Here’s you cast of character living in Casa de Ames:
The lovely Greg: The long suffering hunk-o-hubby. Goodness, I could put that man on a piece of bread and eat him!
Eva: My daughter-at-large. She goes between Switzerland (school) and home.
Clinton (BC): My girlfriend’s son whom we took in after she topped herself.
Zora: The French nanny from hell. She scares the kid and she doesn’t speak very much English which means half of my day is spent translating what the hell she’s saying. But she fits right in with the nut bunch so I can’t let her go.
Daniel: My copy editor. Yep, he lives with us but still keeps a place in the city...that he hasn't slept in in over a year.
Lawrence: Daniel’s friend from West Virginia. He came to visit and never left. He’s also in publishing industry so it works out wonderfully. We love him!
Caroline (name changed to protect her rep): My girlfriend and fellow author who also happens to be Daniel’s girlfriend and client. Don’t ask…
The Pets: Charlie (Cat-Vader), Chutney, Dog and Cat (we just got these two so they don’t have names yet). Sadly, Jaws, Eva’s goldfish passed away…twice. We renamed him Lazarus after he died early one morning then proceeded to resurrect himself by the time Eva came home later that day. Freaky shit happens in Case de Ames.
Anyway, back topic. I love my mother-in-law! Yes, sometimes she makes me wanna poke her in the eye but then again everyone makes me wanna do that at one time or another. She saw your girl slipping into literary darkness and she threw me a lifeline. What's with WASP giving 'people' as gifts? You may remember Greg gave me a housekeeper for my birthday. There's much to be said for WASPy over-privileged guilt! I got a chef!
Okay this post wasn’t supposed to end this way. It was supposed to be about Greg’s gift to me but somehow I got off topic and this post is now blog-tastic. I’ll post about Greg’s gift tomorrow.
Tracy
Now, I can see most of you frowning but this gesture reproduced me to puffy ugly face tears because I’m a cook. I love cooking however I’ve been so stressed out with writing, teaching Kink courses and other general day-to-day BS….its been difficult to whip up a three course meal. In most homes under normal circumstances, this wouldn’t be a problem however this is Casa de Ames….we ain’t normal!
Here’s you cast of character living in Casa de Ames:
The lovely Greg: The long suffering hunk-o-hubby. Goodness, I could put that man on a piece of bread and eat him!
Eva: My daughter-at-large. She goes between Switzerland (school) and home.
Clinton (BC): My girlfriend’s son whom we took in after she topped herself.
Zora: The French nanny from hell. She scares the kid and she doesn’t speak very much English which means half of my day is spent translating what the hell she’s saying. But she fits right in with the nut bunch so I can’t let her go.
Daniel: My copy editor. Yep, he lives with us but still keeps a place in the city...that he hasn't slept in in over a year.
Lawrence: Daniel’s friend from West Virginia. He came to visit and never left. He’s also in publishing industry so it works out wonderfully. We love him!
Caroline (name changed to protect her rep): My girlfriend and fellow author who also happens to be Daniel’s girlfriend and client. Don’t ask…
The Pets: Charlie (Cat-Vader), Chutney, Dog and Cat (we just got these two so they don’t have names yet). Sadly, Jaws, Eva’s goldfish passed away…twice. We renamed him Lazarus after he died early one morning then proceeded to resurrect himself by the time Eva came home later that day. Freaky shit happens in Case de Ames.
Anyway, back topic. I love my mother-in-law! Yes, sometimes she makes me wanna poke her in the eye but then again everyone makes me wanna do that at one time or another. She saw your girl slipping into literary darkness and she threw me a lifeline. What's with WASP giving 'people' as gifts? You may remember Greg gave me a housekeeper for my birthday. There's much to be said for WASPy over-privileged guilt! I got a chef!
Okay this post wasn’t supposed to end this way. It was supposed to be about Greg’s gift to me but somehow I got off topic and this post is now blog-tastic. I’ll post about Greg’s gift tomorrow.
Tracy
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26 Responses to "My Anniversary: WASPy Over-Privileged Guilt (Atonement)" 
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said this on 11 Oct 2009 7:33:23 AM CDT
Ok Tracy, You have finally done it. I am utterly speechless! Congrats to you and Greg and Happy Anniversary!
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said this on 11 Oct 2009 12:24:42 PM CDT
I keep telling you Olga, my life is far from normal. I should write a book about life with a WASP...that book would be awesome.
Thanks! I love my hubby. He's one amazing guy. |
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said this on 11 Oct 2009 9:50:50 AM CDT
if u r still upset about the gift..please feel free to send my way..my present to you...:D
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said this on 11 Oct 2009 12:26:42 PM CDT
Lady, I'm not upset, I'm happy. It's one less thing I have to worry about.
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said this on 11 Oct 2009 1:41:16 PM CDT
Hey Tracy any room for me? I'm looking to relocate...
LOL! Happy Anniversary lady! |
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said this on 11 Oct 2009 2:01:51 PM CDT
Girl, we have two more bedrooms left...you'd better come on because the house is feeling up fast, lol.
Thanks! |
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said this on 11 Oct 2009 2:45:32 PM CDT
No, No, No Stephanie. I got first dibs. When my husband and kids finally have me on the road to drinking my troubles away, Tracy house seems like a good place to dry out. You see, you can't get off of "Crazy"(like my house) cold turkey, Tracy seems to have enough people at her casa to still make it interesting. LOL
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said this on 11 Oct 2009 2:59:59 PM CDT
LMAO! I have a house full of nuts. Example: Daniel was making a pot roast at 2:30am...why? Because he wanted pot roast. What the hell is that about?
Clinton, two years old, has a fetish for rice and gravy....but only if he can eat it out of his hand (only his right hand NOT the left one). Do you see what I'm talking about? Crazy doesn't apply to this house, madness does. |
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said this on 11 Oct 2009 3:13:11 PM CDT
Crazy/Madness-Tomato/Toma ato it'll feel like home, but I am not related to it. (Ha, Ha, Ha) Also, have you tried the kid's plastic cutlery from IKEA. Once the kiddos know they have their own set, they go nuts-that's the only thing they want to use come eatin' time.
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said this on 11 Oct 2009 6:06:43 PM CDT
It does feel like home! When I'm away from my clan, I feel empty...if that makes sense.
We love IKEA! I could live in the food court. I'll have to drive up this weekend and let the kid go wild. |
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said this on 13 Oct 2009 5:31:23 PM CDT
LOL...I thought only my 3yr old nephew was the only person that eats rice & gravy 24/7....hears a tip Success boil in bag rice and gravy in a jar, saves time and crying....dammed near burned downed the house after he woke up at 3am after waking up at the kitchen island to smoke detectors going off....btw I am STILL waiting for him to "outgrow" this phase....
Happy Anniversary |
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said this on 13 Oct 2009 9:41:51 PM CDT
LOL! Carol, I'm dying laughing. No, you aren't alone. I'll have to remember Success boil in bag rice and gravy in a jar. Clinton is a trip, he only eats certain foods (chicken, rice and gravy....in his hand!). And don't get me started on his fetish with milk boxes and garnola.
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said this on 14 Oct 2009 3:46:00 PM CDT
Dang Tracy, if I was not in the room when my nephew was born I would swear BC is this twin....Jamiel ONLY eats rice/gravy, cereal with EVEN number of Honey Nut Cheerios and Apple Jacks in mouth (two each) and DON'T try to fool him (we've tried) or he will spit it out and throw them across the kitchen. This is ALL he eats, even tried to sneak meat in his rice he knows (still have yet to figure that out) and will make himself throw up...did I mention this little boy has made a grown woman cry.
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said this on 14 Oct 2009 6:29:57 PM CDT
Yes goodness, they sound like twins! What the heck happened there?! Well I can't talk...I have food issues myself. I don't eat meat on a bone...don't eat big thick cuts of meat...I separate my M&M according to color…and I won’t eat anything that ends in ‘urst’ example bratwurst.
So you see BC fits right in with us. |
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said this on 11 Oct 2009 5:08:57 PM CDT
Happy Anniversary and may you guys have many many many many many many many many many many many many many more!!!.
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said this on 11 Oct 2009 6:03:05 PM CDT
Thank you so much! I hope so, I wouldn't know what to do without my snuggle-butt.
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said this on 11 Oct 2009 6:23:02 PM CDT
Let forget the anniversary for the next year Tracy, just take your readers & writers as your gift...
Stephanie & Olga could find a roof for the end of the next year if I'll buy the big house that I continue to looking for in France...lol Whatever we have the chance that Tracy is not selfish with her passion, & help us to read & write instead of practice only our pulsions for themselves... Thank You Tracy for your poetry style of the sex in the life, kiss on your cheeks for your anniversary, of course! |
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said this on 11 Oct 2009 7:27:16 PM CDT
Thank you very much, Bill. You are more that welcome to my passion...read on buddy!
You hear that Stephanie and Olga...Bill has a place for you in France...:) |
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said this on 11 Oct 2009 7:50:26 PM CDT
Hey Bill, I am all over that offer-French Cuisine, The Champs-Elysee. I can even put my eight years of French to use. (See Dad, its not a useless language-everyone does not need to know Mandarin Chinese) Unfortunately, the way I pronounce words in French is pretty criminal. I was asked by several French teachers in my past NOT to tell anyone I learned French from them.
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said this on 11 Oct 2009 9:53:55 PM CDT
Oh Bill,
I'm all over that generous offer. It has been a while since I have been to France. I have missed it. My French is probably a little rusty but I'm a fast learner. You sure you want this southern woman in your household? It could get very interesting... |
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said this on 12 Oct 2009 9:51:30 AM CDT
Happy Anniversary Tracy and Greg!! wish you guys many more.
Now, about that chef, can i borrow him for Thanksgiving? i swear you can have him back after that. Bill, is there room for one more, Tracy already has her hand full, she does not need another Diva in her house, plus i cannot cook, therefore i can't contribute. |
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said this on 12 Oct 2009 10:10:42 PM CDT
Well with so many w.i.p. (women inspirational potential) from here, I'll have to rent a limo...isn't it : just to travel all these guest star across France...
About the house maybe a kit solution could offer to each of You to participate in building your room...what a dream each women in a short & t-shirt...women "village people" contruction team...lol All this success with all these women could make me become a little bit mytho, so is there a woman maid too in your contacts...just in case You want to preserve my heart & health! Well I'm waiting your creations & stories dear writers, maybe some new inspirations while your holidays with me... Thanks for your original energy of all!!! |
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said this on 13 Oct 2009 11:03:22 PM CDT
Well Bill, I don't like to brag but I have many talents. I can write, cook and clean, although I prefer to focus on the first two so a maid just might be in order. Such a generous man. If only you were closer in distance. *sigh*
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said this on 14 Oct 2009 6:05:59 PM CDT
well Stephanie, You know life is long...but nights too short...for dreams, but here we have many stories to be more closer than just a cross eyes in eyes like two shy adult.....before.....
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said this on 14 Oct 2009 10:40:37 AM CDT
Yes i can be a maid Bill, French is my native language, so it works well.
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said this on 14 Oct 2009 6:18:43 PM CDT
Heidi : we have another common point, yes we are both two virgin writers without any creation lay down under the eyes of the IRE readers...yet...
but what about your notion in health to be a good maid, or your prefer the specialization in the sting!?! |
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