My Friday Rant!!

In my mind there’s nothing worse than silent sex...zero, nothing, nil from the peanut gallery. Why are some men reluctant to talk dirty in bed? Or out of bed for that matter. Men aren’t alone in their silent musing, some women steer clear of dirty banter as well, however I’ll be focusing on the men.

Personally, I wanted a man who could articulate his needs and wants—nothing gets me hotter than a man telling me exactly how I'm making him feel at that exact moment. And dirty talk during foreplay builds anticipation and there’s nothing hotter than anticipating what’s going to happen. Tell me what you want. Tell me what you plan on doing to me. Just say something for goodness sake!


There’s nothing sexier than a man who's not afraid to share his fantasies. For a guy to verbalize what’s going on inside of his head takes balls of steel because, sadly, men are accustomed to being told “No!” or “You can’t call me that!” . They shut down. Ladies this is where we can help them: Give him free reign, let him go bananas.


In our bedroom there are only three words off the table: The N-word which he’d never use, Cunt, and Stupid. It’s pretty obvious why those words have been sidelined…no need to go into it.


To The Men:
Words and sounds are erotic stimulus. I’m not talking about porn inspired fake screaming or Shakespearian like sonnets. Those are the two extremes. All most women require is one or two moans or groans. This is especially important if she’s blowing you…don’t just lay/stand/kneel there like a paraplegic… throw her verbal high-five of appreciation for services rendered.


I can’t speak for all women but I will say this: I like when Greg tells me what he wants—faster, slower, harder, softer. His feedback let’s me know I’m turning him on. And I'd venture to say most women feel the same way.


Think back to the Sam’s scene in “Beg Me: Part Four. Why was that scene popular? They weren’t having sex in Sam’s. It was because Mark’s words got into Sydney’s head. Here’s a hint: Women like it! Have another read and get some ideas. Talking dirty during sex is smokin’ hot! It doesn’t have to be super dirty! One of the sexiest things Greg has ever whispered in my ear during sex was “Damn, baby. You look so good with no clothes on.”


My orgasm went through the roof and hasn’t been seen since!


Throw us a bone while you’re throwing us the bone! Say something, anything. Don’t just flop about like a fish out of water, gasping for air before succumbing. Give us our just due fellas…render me my song damn it!!


Okay, a bit melodramatic but my point was made.