There are only so many ways to describe the male form in form in erotica. I think I speak for most women when I saw we like fit men, not rock hard (most on the time) but real. Besides hair color, their either short, tall, fit or not so fit.

My husband bought up a good point, why are most of the hero’s well endowed. Easy, no one including men want to read or see a short mushy misshapen nob getting it on with a total babe. It would be, if a bit weird, gross!