Yearning To Please You
- By Tracy Ames
- Published March 13, 2010
Tracy Ames
Mrs. Ames is an international bestselling author of interracial erotic fiction and a former columnist for several newsletters and magazines.
A native of the San Francisco Bay Area, Tracy currently split time between CT & New York City with her husband, children and a host of pets.
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I think we may have covered this topic briefly in the post about “dirty talk” but I wanted to go a little deeper.
Is it sexy when our spouses tell us what to do in bed? And if so, why?
I’m not talking about them asking or forcefully demanding it. I’m talking about the long lingering penetrating stare; the calm calculating tone and then a simple “Lay down” or “On your hands and knees”.
What’s with that? Why the heck is it hot? Am I the only one? There has to be something in our human nature which yearns to be instructed because men like it also.
What's going on!
Is it sexy when our spouses tell us what to do in bed? And if so, why?
I’m not talking about them asking or forcefully demanding it. I’m talking about the long lingering penetrating stare; the calm calculating tone and then a simple “Lay down” or “On your hands and knees”.
What’s with that? Why the heck is it hot? Am I the only one? There has to be something in our human nature which yearns to be instructed because men like it also.
What's going on!
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10 Responses to "Yearning To Please You" 
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said this on 14 Mar 2010 1:32:31 PM CDT
No gir! you are definately not the only one! Maybe it is human nature. Cause I think it hot as hell when my man goes all alpha on me in bed. I love it! Know outside the bed room not so much! lol!
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said this on 14 Mar 2010 5:21:06 PM CDT
I have to agree with C Chapman, outside of the bedroom is a different story. Inside the bedroom an Alpha male is the absolute sexiest. Even when he occasionally concedes control. I think its because you know you have had to prove you have earned it--which means you are sexy to him.
I love a man that takes control. That means that he knows what pleases him and therefore is in the position to knows how to pleasure me. He is certain of it and I can surrender myself to every sensation. That is sexy. So when he has that look that makes my little bud ache , his voice is clear and firm, he says "open them wider", I am certain that it is for a a reason. The expectation alone is enough to make me quiver. That is sexy. |
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said this on 14 Mar 2010 6:06:14 PM CDT
"I love a man that takes control. That means that he knows what pleases him and therefore is in the position to knows how to pleasure me. He is certain of it and I can surrender myself to every sensation. That is sexy."
Reggi, in that statement, you bring up a very good point. Is the sexiness of it due in some way to our nature want to submit? To have someone else whom we trust responsible for us (for the time being)? Does that make sense? And you're right, it's sexy when an Alpha male concedes control! I thought I was alone in that thought! |
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said this on 14 Mar 2010 7:29:31 PM CDT
Well personally I don't really see it as submitting. When I think of submitting it's like I've sat there and just allowed someone to force there will on me . When a man shows you he has the confidence in his ablilty in his skills to please you and there's trust between you. There's really nothing you need to do but sit back and let him do his thing and enjoy the ride. Yeah it's it hot when a man can let his gaurd down and sit back and trust his body to you.
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said this on 14 Mar 2010 8:58:16 PM CDT
Okay, maybe 'submit' was the wrong word in the general term. Submitting doesn't mean just sitting there and let's them do as they please, that's being a slave and we all know how much I dislike slave crap. *Fanning Myself* Yes, it's a sore subject, lol!
What I was thinking of is more along the same lines as you mentioned--showing that he has the confidence in his ability...it's a matter of trust. I think it's hot jsut knowing I can sit back and allow Greg to work his magic even though I'm a Domina. Now when he does allow me to get the upper hand (which doesn't happen often) it's amazingly hot because its him showing me his trust. |
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said this on 15 Mar 2010 9:04:12 PM CDT
LOl! Yeah we know how feel about the slave stuff! I agree with what you and it is exterly hot when a man can give up complete trust to you and have you way.
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said this on 14 Mar 2010 8:11:37 PM CDT
Well a moment of intimity with our alter ego, breath to breath, sometime push the expression of the mutual competition to the feelings without any words : you see just all the others sens...
Maybe we know all how to translate & respond to primal scream or more...one complicity in the way to share the other like we pleased to let her be now in a live emotion...because we always wait the original next accident, crash & repair moment a second & again one other second! Let You surrender to your next inspiration, I've receive a call for an emergency! |
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said this on 16 Mar 2010 8:06:56 PM CDT
I'm just gonna put this out here. I don't like no pansy ass asking, I'm your woman you want something from me, be a man about it. LOL. Push me down, spread my legs, put your weight on me. If you know you're doing, you don't have to ask. Now, when I'm regular life, I'm in control, I'm smart, capable, sort of intimidating woman, I don't shrink for anyone but when the door closes to the bedroom or wherever we might be doing it at that point, I want to be all woman, soft, sweet, and pliable. Now, you couldn't do that crap outside those circumstances but at the time, it is totally acceptable. I think men sometimes get scared that with all the feminism stuff, they have to be sensitive, I don't want sensitive in the bedroom I want a man. That big ol' so and so I got for a man, he's 6'4" and 250 lbs and I know not a lot of people love missionary but we've done some stuff with missionary I didn't even think possible but when he presses all that weight against me and works it, I just can't get enough. So, yea it's nice, it's great, please men do it more LOL.
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said this on 17 Mar 2010 12:14:36 AM CDT
LMAO! Eugenia, you almost made me spew tea on my laptop. You have to warn me before you open up a comment like this! But I hear you. I'm the same way. Don't ask me, tell me. And the weight bit...oh baby that's hot!
Somw men are afraid of saying and doing the wrong things so they don't do anything or they ask. *waving hands in air* Hey men, we like dirty talk. We like a bit of force. We want to be taken. Goodness, I hope they get the point. |
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said this on 17 Mar 2010 1:21:57 AM CDT
I swear next time I'll warn you, LOL.
Let's hope so, come on let's be truthful, women is nasty, we can really be raunchy and freaky. I don't think men even realize that about women but if you don't ask you're women she's probably way freakier than even you are. My poor sweetie before he got me, he wanted a woman with a healthy sexual appetite and told me he could keep up. But now that he's here, he's a little wore out LOL. I told him, 'watch what you wish for, you just might get it'. |