You guys always hear me go on about Tim, Pam, Stan, and Sissy but today is my youngest brother Jonathan’s 19th birthday.


Jonathan was the “surprise” baby. No one saw him coming, least of which my parents. As you can imagine, him being the youngest AND a male he was spoiled by his siblings especially us girls. By the time he came along us older ones were out of the house but we came home on a regular basis.


Stan was been my dad’s favorite and up until Jonathan came along, he was the youngest boy. My dad played minor league baseball and Stan was athletic from an early age so there was a shared bond between them. Any sport you throw at him, he excelled in. You’d think this would’ve been a problem when Jonathan popped up but it wasn’t.


Physically, Stan and Jonathan are carbon copies of one another…thereby also of my dad: Very tall, fit, fair complexioned (my grandmother is half WASP, although Stan has darken with age), blue-ish/gray eyes. They both have our dad’s laid back confidence, the deep voices, and icy stares which are softened by their dimples.


Academically, socially, and mentally their lives were parallel. Jonathan was/is constantly compared to Stan and he himself worshiped his older brother. But Jonathan surpassed Stan in one field, music. Yes, we all play instruments but he’s mastered everything especially the piano…seriously, it’ll make you cry.


He’s a junior in university with a double major of business (like his brothers) and mathematics…which is distinctly his own. What I admire about him is his general outlook on life, his sense of self and purpose. It can’t be easy being the youngest in a family of overachieving smartasses but he craved out a piece aside from all of us and bravely bears our over-protectiveness.


He and Stan are still fabulously close but he’s changed. He’s a man. My little brother is a man. When did that happen?!


Happy Birthday, Jon Jon!