That's a tricky question. "The one who got away" is very tricky especially if you know deep down that was the one somehow you should have been with. It's like thirsting for something that you know will not bring you closure, but it will make you happy in the moment. I don't know about afterwards though. It depends on what you think you have with that person who is at home waiting on you. I had a cousin that told me her reasoning once. If you know what you have at home, then you will not have to worry about being caught up in a "heat of the moment".

My grandma used to say you don't know unless it happens to you. I guess that's why she left her second husband and went back to her first husband. (LOL) I guess it's true you can fall in and out love with one person for the rest of your life. Listen to a new artist by the name of Diane Birch. She has a wonderful song called "Nothing But A Miracle" in which she talks about what she has at home and how it is time to get out and meet some new people. Funny, but real!!!

You must listen to the song "The Way It Is" by artist Nicole Atkins. The girl is bad. I love it. Gives you great insight on the choices you make when it comes to cheating. My cousin put me on to this.

Honestly, Hell to the no to me cheating is a sign if disrespect not only to your significant other but to myself. I don't like stress or unanswered questions left at the end of a relationship case in point, the last man I dated before James was one I thought got away and he was my one. When I came across James as a potential lover, mate I was honest with him on this relationship, the feelings I have/had for him during this time because that felt like lying to me. When we realized we could have "it" all I sought out this man put it all on the table fortunately for me he did the same, I realized that the sexual attraction was there but not the emotional attraction. He noted when I spoke about James while sitting with him the difference in my demeanor that I never had that looked way about him we realized he "never got away" he just was not my "one"

Sometimes others cheat "because they can", so can I but the difference to me is "Am I willing to pay the price" of cheating, is this opportunity more important than the relationship with James. After my meeting with said ex we spoke honestly, our conclusion we are the half of the other but if either wants to leave we will let the person go with a heavy heart.

Woot Whoo! And then there was light! I'm so happy you finally got some and he's young. Bless your horny heart. There's nothing like a good snog.

Happy Anniversary Wanda!!!

No I wouldn't cheat. If I were seriously starting to find myself that attracted physically or emotionally by another man old flame or otherwise. Then it clear my current relationhip needsto change. Either we start talking and trying workout our relationship or we move on and go our seperate ways. But I won't disrepct them or what we shared by screwing aonther man behind his back. Ask Tiger Wood and Jesse James that shit will ALWAYS come back to bite you in the ass. So I'll just it act like a grown ass woman show them the respect they deserve and be honest about it. That way we can end things and move on without all the hate and negativity that come with cheating. I don't need it in my life.

I’d do it. My wife doesn’t like trying new things. I’m bored.

No, I wouldn't do it. I wouldn't risk my good thang our a coulda been. We romanticize things in the past sometimes and forget why we broke up with that person in the first place, that don't change. And I wouldn't get away with it, because I'd always know and feel the guilt and shame of it.