The Domina and the Dumb-Ass. Grab Your Popcorn
- By Tracy Ames
- Published September 22, 2010
Tracy Ames
Mrs. Ames is an international bestselling author of interracial erotic fiction and a former columnist for several newsletters and magazines.
A native of the San Francisco Bay Area, Tracy currently split time between CT & New York City with her husband, children and a host of pets.
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Alright guys. You all know I’m sick so my fuse is a little short. But I had to share this email I received a few minutes ago from an utter dumb-ass. Hell, I shook off my NyQuil fog just reply to this idiot.
Dumb-Ass:
Hello and how are you? i am strict black master here I want to own you, manage you and use your talents on a daily basis. you will live here, work with me in doing chores, Ill train you in occupational skills, take care of your physical and emotional needs. you will be my slave in all ways. Im rather kinky, BDSM is a normal thing. you will submit to my inclinations.
Obviously, it starts with communication and develop trust and commitment. Its not like jumping off a cliff tomorrow. this is the time for you to futfilled your destiny and become my humble slut and serve under my command
Tracy:
Sweetie, you obviously don’t know who I am. Let me introduce myself. I’m Tracy, a fifteen year seasoned Domina. I bow to NO ONE! Be thankful I can’t twist my foot off in your ass for using the word ‘slut’ when addressing me!
Since you had the balls to step to a total stranger with this bullshit means you won’t object to me pointing out a few flaws in your ‘request’.
First, you spelled ‘master’ with a lower case ‘m’. That alone proves that you don’t understand the fundamentals of Kink. And don’t get me started on ‘my’. Try this lame crap with a newbie. I’ve been in the game too long to fall for your thinly veiled attempt at Kink.
Second, your lounge lizard “my humble slut and serve under my command” approach is a mark of an amateur. Please! You’re talking to a Real Domina…I break Doms for fun!
Third, ‘occupational skills’? What the hell are you talking about? Before I became a successful writer, I received a full academic scholarship from one of the most prestigious universities on earth and went on to earn a degree in computer science! So even if I put down my flog, I’d still whip your ass! You can’t teach me shit!
Fourth, ‘your inclinations’…‘my physical and emotional needs’?! You really don’t understand how Kink works, do you? I would explain the problems with those statements but it would go over your head since basic Kink knowledge has eluded you.
I say this on behalf of Kinkster everywhere: Stop pretending you’re a Dom. This amateur hour bullshit you just pulled is the reason people steer away from Kink. You’re playing into that old perverse stereotype that Real Kinksters find insulting. A Real Dom would NEVER approach anyone, not even a sub, in the manner in which you approached me.
If you want to become a proper Dom, you need training. The mere audacity steeped in your email is a blatant sign that you’ve had none. Before you make another lame attempt to get your rocks off, get some training and DO NOT portray yourself to others as a Real Dominant. Enjoying kinky sex doesn’t make you a Dominant. Being a Dominant is a heavy responsibility, it’s a position of immense authority, and trust. You are no Dominant.
Good Day

Sorry, White men. I couldn't find a Black guy getting slapped. :)
Dumb-Ass:
Hello and how are you? i am strict black master here I want to own you, manage you and use your talents on a daily basis. you will live here, work with me in doing chores, Ill train you in occupational skills, take care of your physical and emotional needs. you will be my slave in all ways. Im rather kinky, BDSM is a normal thing. you will submit to my inclinations.
Obviously, it starts with communication and develop trust and commitment. Its not like jumping off a cliff tomorrow. this is the time for you to futfilled your destiny and become my humble slut and serve under my command
Tracy:
Sweetie, you obviously don’t know who I am. Let me introduce myself. I’m Tracy, a fifteen year seasoned Domina. I bow to NO ONE! Be thankful I can’t twist my foot off in your ass for using the word ‘slut’ when addressing me!
Since you had the balls to step to a total stranger with this bullshit means you won’t object to me pointing out a few flaws in your ‘request’.
First, you spelled ‘master’ with a lower case ‘m’. That alone proves that you don’t understand the fundamentals of Kink. And don’t get me started on ‘my’. Try this lame crap with a newbie. I’ve been in the game too long to fall for your thinly veiled attempt at Kink.
Second, your lounge lizard “my humble slut and serve under my command” approach is a mark of an amateur. Please! You’re talking to a Real Domina…I break Doms for fun!
Third, ‘occupational skills’? What the hell are you talking about? Before I became a successful writer, I received a full academic scholarship from one of the most prestigious universities on earth and went on to earn a degree in computer science! So even if I put down my flog, I’d still whip your ass! You can’t teach me shit!
Fourth, ‘your inclinations’…‘my physical and emotional needs’?! You really don’t understand how Kink works, do you? I would explain the problems with those statements but it would go over your head since basic Kink knowledge has eluded you.
I say this on behalf of Kinkster everywhere: Stop pretending you’re a Dom. This amateur hour bullshit you just pulled is the reason people steer away from Kink. You’re playing into that old perverse stereotype that Real Kinksters find insulting. A Real Dom would NEVER approach anyone, not even a sub, in the manner in which you approached me.
If you want to become a proper Dom, you need training. The mere audacity steeped in your email is a blatant sign that you’ve had none. Before you make another lame attempt to get your rocks off, get some training and DO NOT portray yourself to others as a Real Dominant. Enjoying kinky sex doesn’t make you a Dominant. Being a Dominant is a heavy responsibility, it’s a position of immense authority, and trust. You are no Dominant.
Good Day

Sorry, White men. I couldn't find a Black guy getting slapped. :)
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13 Responses to "The Domina and the Dumb-Ass. Grab Your Popcorn" 
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said this on 22 Sep 2010 1:56:57 PM CDT
LMAO TRACY thank you I needed a good laugh after dealing with these rugrats this was a breath of fresh air. Even I who’s done a minute research in the world of Kink could smell the errors of the "master" ways but I will say the man has some balls worthless, and shriveled but balls the same, to send an email of that magnitude to someone he doesn’t even know. Honestly if I was interesting (I am just a bit) in the world of Kink he and his email would turn me completely off. What was even worst-you weren’t at your best form-I curse that Nyquil. Oh this should be make a good conversational piece for you and Greg
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said this on 22 Sep 2010 2:16:45 PM CDT
I know! This damn NyQuil has me in a headlock. I can't think clearly. This guy has lost his mind and he shriveled up balls. Any woman would be turned off by his email. Sadly, someone will take him seriously and end up in a horrible D/s relationahip. *sigh*
Greg was laughing his butt off. He know that I was gonna blow! Now he's walking around quoting the email. "You will submit to my inclinations" that one killed us. |
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said this on 22 Sep 2010 2:01:33 PM CDT
WTF? What a complete jerk-off! This person had to be joking. *smh* My knowledge of kink is pretty limited but even I knew this guy was a wannabe. Do you receive emails like this often? If you do then I think you should have a "creepy dumbass of the week" blog. LOL This guy would be funny if he wasn't so pathetic.
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said this on 22 Sep 2010 2:20:44 PM CDT
LOL! This is the first time I've had someone come straight out of the box with their BS. Don't get me wrong, I receive a lot of strange emails. I should start a creepy dumbass blog. This dude caught on a sick day. You wait until I'm better.
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said this on 22 Sep 2010 7:53:04 PM CDT
LOL! This idiot is truly the defintiton of a dumbass! I mean really the man clealry doesn't know anything about you or being a Dominant. If he did he would have even attepted to step to you with that nosense! I don't know much about the whole Dom and submissive culture but even I would never believe this dumbass is some kind of kink master. I don't even know how you deal with geting ridiculous emails like that eveyrday. Atleast you set him straight.
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said this on 22 Sep 2010 7:59:07 PM CDT
A small group of Ladies and I have what's called "stalker alerts". We keep each other up to date on the latest idiots so we can steer clear of them. Well I'm putting this idiot on blast right here and now! Be on the lookout. He's Tayo Godwin on FB.
I wish he would try this mess we me again! |
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said this on 22 Sep 2010 8:18:52 PM CDT
Ok I'm glad you put him on blast I had to check his FB out-the man isn't even "panty dropping" handsome. I know it's a bit vain of me but if you want me to be your slave give me something to work with ;-)
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said this on 22 Sep 2010 8:44:55 PM CDT
Okay! He's ugly behind had the nerve to send that stupid email. I can't see anyone lining up to be anything for him. YUCK!
Ladies, watch your backs. |
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said this on 24 Sep 2010 6:34:03 PM CDT
Good grief.... As a Domina in training, I shudder when I think of how lowlifes such as this one are preying on submissives who are just entering the lifestyle and may actually believe this dom (purposely lower-case, because he is) is for real.
He clearly does not understand, nor deserve the gift of submission. Sigh... Is it any wonder it takes so long to find a decent candidate to even consider I hope you feel better soon, Lady. |
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said this on 26 Sep 2010 12:53:18 PM CDT
I don't think that man would never, ever utter the word Dom let alone think it after you ripped his balls off and stepped on them...Great job!
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said this on 26 Sep 2010 1:10:55 PM CDT
Paris, the idiot had the nerve to reply! See blow. Thankfully, FB deleted his acoount. I hope no one fell for his crap. People like him burn me up...he feeds the prejudice people have against Kinksters. It's like saying Flava Flav represents the Black race.
"you are nothing but a little brat who need to be Dominated by a brutal Master dog like you could teach in school" |
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said this on 01 Oct 2010 4:28:08 PM CDT
You have interesting problems.
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