The idea that renewing our vows would be as easy as pushing on an open door is quickly looking like a total misconception.

I have no vows, no music, no food, no venue, and scarcely any patience. On the flip side, I have a gorgeous dress being made. Yay!

At this point, we’re considering tearing a page from our first play book and having everything held in one place: an inn or the Ritz-Carlton Half Moon Bay. They take care of everything…you just point and it’s done! We went to see Lalah Hathaway there a few years ago and we've loved it ever since.

Another plus is, unlike other Ritz's, Half Moon Bay has a very laid back Cali vibe going. It's still the Ritz but there's no A-hole greeting you at the door and it's not as expensive as other Ritz...but tons more beautiful. Check it out and let me know what you think.

Another option is to hold the event in Rhode Island at Greg’s family seat. Do I have to spell out the headaches that lie therein? I think not….you get the picture. I’m not taking this option from the table; I’m simply putting it on the back burner.

With my in-laws help, I’m hoping to have everything in order by the end of the month. If not, we’re having a chicken dinner here at the house. Screw it!