Another WASP Post & Other Shizz
- By Tracy Ames
- Published December 6, 2010
Tracy Ames
Mrs. Ames is an international bestselling author of interracial erotic fiction and a former columnist for several newsletters and magazines.
A native of the San Francisco Bay Area, Tracy currently split time between CT & New York City with her husband, children and a host of pets.
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Momma Ames and I were having one of our WASP DNA chats. These chat normally consist of me asking far too many questions about the traditions and WASPs bloodlines. Our latest was no different.
Coming from a patriarchal driven family, I understand the desire for male heirs, however, the WASPs have taken this concept to a whole new (or rather, old) level. They must have male heirs from a male line of the family. They eat it, sleep it, and breathe it! They’d hump it if it had genitals.

As discussed in earlier post. I initially believed this obsession with males was monetary based…ie ensuring the family’s loot remained in the family. But I was wrong. Yes, while keeping their money within the family is very important it’s not the sole or most important piece of the puzzle.
It’s the Y chromosome: the chromosome responsible for maleness. The Y chromosome can only be past from father to son…example: Granddad—Dad—Greg. As long as this chain goes unbroken the family’s blood/history is easily traceable right down to ancient encampments—it’s how we track populations through time…their blood is literally frozen in time.

Only when the female (or lower branch) of the family take up the duty of carrying the family’s name do things become murky. The links are now broken. This is why it’s customary amongst WASP to choose one son (oldest or not) to carry their name…ie the key folder…ie Granddad…ie Dad….ie Greg.
No male heirs from Greg means the line transfers to his younger brother Howard. Not so fast! Greg and Howard don’t get along. So Greg skips Howard in favor of Howard’s oldest son and his namesake, Greg.
Okay now that everyone is up to speed, let’s move on….
Momma Ames and I start flipping through the family albums…yes, albums…these people are vain!!!! They break out a camera for any and every reason imaginable….“Wait, Eva’s opening an envelope!” CLICK!

Sorry, I got sidetracked…
As we’re flipping, something wondrous happens: I feel a sense of pride. I’ve never met or heard of most of these Scandinavian looking folks but there’s a sense of family pride I only get when looking at my own family. I begin to see things through the Ames’ eyes. No, they’re not proud of how they made their loot but made it they did…and it’s each successive generation’s inherent responsible to better, protect, and continue the family.
In this way, I see the invisible ties Greg has to his family. You won’t see him kicking back at a country club anytime soon but you will see his name on the roll. And you won’t see him at the family’s horse stables but you will see him at the family’s fundraiser dancing with his Great Aunt (seriously, those two are inseparable!).
Objectively speaking, WASPs aren’t any different from the rest of us. Who am I kidding?! Yes they are! They’re big old blood hogging, picture taking, snobs!
I love my family!!

Just so you know, Rick Rescorla IS NOT a WASP!!
The Other Shizz
To everyone who made recipe request, they're coming. I tested a few over the holiday.
End of Shizz...
Coming from a patriarchal driven family, I understand the desire for male heirs, however, the WASPs have taken this concept to a whole new (or rather, old) level. They must have male heirs from a male line of the family. They eat it, sleep it, and breathe it! They’d hump it if it had genitals.

As discussed in earlier post. I initially believed this obsession with males was monetary based…ie ensuring the family’s loot remained in the family. But I was wrong. Yes, while keeping their money within the family is very important it’s not the sole or most important piece of the puzzle.
It’s the Y chromosome: the chromosome responsible for maleness. The Y chromosome can only be past from father to son…example: Granddad—Dad—Greg. As long as this chain goes unbroken the family’s blood/history is easily traceable right down to ancient encampments—it’s how we track populations through time…their blood is literally frozen in time.

Only when the female (or lower branch) of the family take up the duty of carrying the family’s name do things become murky. The links are now broken. This is why it’s customary amongst WASP to choose one son (oldest or not) to carry their name…ie the key folder…ie Granddad…ie Dad….ie Greg.
No male heirs from Greg means the line transfers to his younger brother Howard. Not so fast! Greg and Howard don’t get along. So Greg skips Howard in favor of Howard’s oldest son and his namesake, Greg.
Okay now that everyone is up to speed, let’s move on….
Momma Ames and I start flipping through the family albums…yes, albums…these people are vain!!!! They break out a camera for any and every reason imaginable….“Wait, Eva’s opening an envelope!” CLICK!

Sorry, I got sidetracked…
As we’re flipping, something wondrous happens: I feel a sense of pride. I’ve never met or heard of most of these Scandinavian looking folks but there’s a sense of family pride I only get when looking at my own family. I begin to see things through the Ames’ eyes. No, they’re not proud of how they made their loot but made it they did…and it’s each successive generation’s inherent responsible to better, protect, and continue the family.
In this way, I see the invisible ties Greg has to his family. You won’t see him kicking back at a country club anytime soon but you will see his name on the roll. And you won’t see him at the family’s horse stables but you will see him at the family’s fundraiser dancing with his Great Aunt (seriously, those two are inseparable!).
Objectively speaking, WASPs aren’t any different from the rest of us. Who am I kidding?! Yes they are! They’re big old blood hogging, picture taking, snobs!
I love my family!!

Just so you know, Rick Rescorla IS NOT a WASP!!
The Other Shizz
To everyone who made recipe request, they're coming. I tested a few over the holiday.
End of Shizz...
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13 Responses to "Another WASP Post & Other Shizz" 
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said this on 08 Dec 2010 9:32:32 PM CDT
Okay! :::Debbie rubs hand together::: Two questions, my dear!
1) How are the brothers (Greg and Howard) not getting along when Howard named his kid after his brother? 2) If, or I should say, when, Greg skips Howard for his namesake is there any chance that nephew Greg, for example, doubles back and passes the keys to his Dad, Howard? Or is there some rule that once keys are passed to YOU, you can't pull any stunts with said keys? Meanwhile, I'm feeling bad for Eva, what with all this MALE DNA stuff going on! You know I love this stuff, Tracy, LOL! |
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said this on 08 Dec 2010 9:55:41 PM CDT
LOL! You're so funny, Debbie. I'm sure I bore you guys to death with these post.
Greg and Howard are trying to mend their fence but Greg isn't putting forth any effort...Howard's trying. He comes to visit and tries to talk things out but Greg shuts down...he doesn't want to deal with the past. Sadly, that's where the problems are, Ha! Howard named Gregory after Greg in order to patch things...which is funny because Gregory looks exactly like Greg...he looks nothing like his parents...he only started going by Gregory after Greg decided to switch from his middle name (they still use both but having two Daniels in the house was a pain)...and their personalities are spot on! They're extremely close. Eva and Gregory are super close...he's her older brother. She's always known the deal so it doesn't bother her one bit. No, once the keys are past that's it. Only death and a costly bitter family breakup can chance it. Unlike Europe, WASP can pick their key holder should they bear no male heirs or in Greg's our case, if Granddad didn't like the obvious choice*. So you can imagine being gay isn't an option. LOL! This is another reason key folders are expected to be close to the family and the family's interest. So when the keys were past to Greg (who was then on the outs with the family) instead of Howard everyone freaked! I said, "Yeah, he still has the breeding, he still has the charm, hell he has the last name....but y'all done PISSED him off!!! Good luck suckas!!" *It's such a LONG story. I'm just now learning the ways of the WASPs bloodline. One day I'll go into this topic in detail. Now that's I've bored you to death, my job is done. :) |
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said this on 09 Dec 2010 10:49:14 AM CDT
Hey, Tracy!
I have no idea what you're talking about but it all sure does sound interesting. I didn't find it boring at all rather informative. Thanks for sharing. Serenity |
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said this on 09 Dec 2010 1:33:30 PM CDT
Ha! You're confused? Imagine marrying one! The first year of our marriage is still a blur.
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said this on 09 Dec 2010 10:53:48 PM CDT
Lol! By they way, the pics are beautiful.
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said this on 09 Dec 2010 10:57:33 PM CDT
Thanks! Emily dug them up. I would give her a raise but she just rolled her eyes at me. :)
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said this on 10 Dec 2010 10:30:15 PM CDT
lol, I felt like I was reading a series of Queen Victoria era with a sprinkle of the French high society before the revolution overtook them. Your husband's family must be the classic WASP in New England, I haven't read about such a family for quite a while. I think male lineage is what most patriarchal society practices even when they claim progress and feminism is part of the society.
ps. I hope Greg opens his heart again to his brother. Its not healthy to keep a grudge for a long time, specially if the other party is humbling themselves and trying to mend fences. My brother is like that and I always tell him, it means he can cut us from his life if we do something he doesn't love. |
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said this on 10 Dec 2010 10:56:11 PM CDT
You're right Hodan. Most patriarchal societies hold fast to these practices. I don't believe this is done to marginalize or devalue females...it boils down to the preservation of the Y chromosome which is nature at its best.
And yes, Greg's family is the type New England WASP dating back to the Mayflower. Tradition is everything to them. There's no two ways about it; WASPs don't change, they evolve. I hope Greg and Howard patch things up. But I don't see it happening any time soon. WASP are notorious for cutting one another off. Howard has to wait it out and not pressure Greg to talk about it. He'll come around. He doesn't hang up on him anymore...that's a start! |
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said this on 11 Dec 2010 7:54:39 PM CDT
Good Lord, Greg used to HANG UP on Howard!? We're talking serious grudge here, Tracy. My older sister and I have had some major to do's where we stopped talking for periods of time but I don't recall either of us hanging up on the other. For one, there is this thing still in my head that (even if I'm mad at her) I wouldn't want to hurt my sister like that (even if she's been an ass!) But I know for a fact she wouldn't have the same concern for me. I may have to start calling my sister Gregorina or something, LOL! But, I'm with Hodan. I hope Greg can surmount this issue because somewhere in there that man misses his brother, I believe. You can't remain that passionate about remaining angry if there wasn't something close and deep between those two to get him this worked up....
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said this on 12 Dec 2010 12:22:46 AM CDT
Heck yeah, Greg used to hang up on Howard. And that was after he lifted the 'don't call my f*ing house' restriction (which last for seven years). Their relationship is typical WASPy behavior but Greg has softened: Howard calls and visits (they go golfing and everything) but he still refuses to sit down and talk about what happened.
Greg is very angry with Howard. But what I think he's trying to do is figure out how to address their problems. So he does what WASPs do when they can't figure shit out: he writes him a check. I give Greg credit, after Howard's wife passed away, he reached out to him but he pulled back when he felt Howard was getting too close. Freakin' WASP! I hope you and Gregorina are on good terms. Sisters have spats but we don't want to see the other hurting (even if they're being asses). :) |
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said this on 12 Dec 2010 8:17:55 PM CDT
Okay, I have a feeling Howard didn't behave well when Greg was on the outs with the family and there's something there that Greg simply cannot forgive. Has Mama Ames tried to get this patched up? My mother has always hated when my sister and I were on the outs..
As for Gregorina and I, we're ok right now because we are ignoring a recent dust up regarding our 78 yr old Mother. Mom lives with me, I was unburdening stuff that was going on and Gregorina was telling me what to do about it, in her big sister..do what I say..way about her, I couldn't handle the pressure of her going Perry Mason on me and starting yelling and oh yeah, she hung up on me. So, I forgot, Gregorina hangs up just like Greg, LOL! |
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said this on 11 Dec 2010 3:30:24 PM CDT
Tracy, your life is so interesting. I love coming on here to not only read your's and the other authors stories, but your blogs are just as awesome to read.
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said this on 12 Dec 2010 12:01:54 AM CDT
Thanks Wanda. I love having you here. :) Lady, my life is nuts...you're welcome to trade for a week. You'll go screaming back home.
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