How Can A Relationship Survive Dishonesty?
- By Tracy Ames
- Published April 26, 2009
Tracy Ames
Mrs. Ames is an international bestselling author of interracial erotic fiction and a former columnist for several newsletters and magazines.
A native of the San Francisco Bay Area, Tracy currently split time between CT & New York City with her husband, children and a host of pets.
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Hey guys,
A friend recently asked a couple of questions that very got under my skin and I wanted to share them with you. How can a relationship survive dishonesty and is it okay to go back after your partner has lied?
Here's my answer:
That’s a tough one. It depends on the dynamics of the relationship as a whole. If the relationship was solid (no prior problems) and the person made a mistake and confessed their wrong doing without being prompted to do so then I believe a second chance may be in order. But the relationship will not work thereafter if the offended doesn’t honestly forgive them. How can a couple move forward down the path of life if one partner always looking back at past grieves? Now if they cheated then I don’t think I could go back, they’d be community property after that. YUCK!
Luckily I found a wonderful man who thinks cheating is, in his words not mine "Gross". Gotta love European men! I'd love to hear your thoughts.
Cheers,
Tracy
A friend recently asked a couple of questions that very got under my skin and I wanted to share them with you. How can a relationship survive dishonesty and is it okay to go back after your partner has lied?
Here's my answer:
That’s a tough one. It depends on the dynamics of the relationship as a whole. If the relationship was solid (no prior problems) and the person made a mistake and confessed their wrong doing without being prompted to do so then I believe a second chance may be in order. But the relationship will not work thereafter if the offended doesn’t honestly forgive them. How can a couple move forward down the path of life if one partner always looking back at past grieves? Now if they cheated then I don’t think I could go back, they’d be community property after that. YUCK!
Luckily I found a wonderful man who thinks cheating is, in his words not mine "Gross". Gotta love European men! I'd love to hear your thoughts.
Cheers,
Tracy
