Your Husbands Are So NOT My Problem!
- By Tracy Ames
- Published July 12, 2011
Tracy Ames
Mrs. Ames is an international bestselling author of interracial erotic fiction and a former columnist for several newsletters and magazines.
A native of the San Francisco Bay Area, Tracy currently split time between Greenwich CT & New York City with her husband, children and a host of pets.
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To wives who have found IRE.net bookmarked on their husband’s computers. Um, look around. Notice anything?
In your blind rage you might have missed what to normal people is glaringly obvious so let me spell it out:
IRE.net isn’t a dating site! We’re writers, you twats!!
In the time it took to draft your longwinded and poorly written emails, you could’ve saved yourself unnecessary heartache by being ever vigilant of your surroundings. We’re a friendly gang of likeminded scribblers who have somehow convinced our readers to visit us often as they like.
Read our stories and blog posts. We babble about our families, and laugh with and at one another. We offer support through thick and thin, rant and rave, and talk about BS we stumble upon.
Whoop-de-freakin’-doo! You caught us being accepting and friendly!
I’m Tracy Ames. I'm a writer. This is my site. I’m not the moral police. If your husbands are here they’re probably not flirting. But if they are that’s not my problem. As long as everyone is respectful, I’m cool. Read our threads…they’re a hoot!
Bottom line, we’re adults and I treat everyone as such until they prove otherwise. You handle your house and I'll handle mine. And please keep your pointless emails.
As my Grandma says: Heartache don't hide. You don't have to go looking for it. It's normally staring you right in the face.
Coming Tomorrow:
The Space Between Things: Chapter Two by Reggi Harrington
In your blind rage you might have missed what to normal people is glaringly obvious so let me spell it out:
IRE.net isn’t a dating site! We’re writers, you twats!!
In the time it took to draft your longwinded and poorly written emails, you could’ve saved yourself unnecessary heartache by being ever vigilant of your surroundings. We’re a friendly gang of likeminded scribblers who have somehow convinced our readers to visit us often as they like.
Read our stories and blog posts. We babble about our families, and laugh with and at one another. We offer support through thick and thin, rant and rave, and talk about BS we stumble upon.
Whoop-de-freakin’-doo! You caught us being accepting and friendly!
I’m Tracy Ames. I'm a writer. This is my site. I’m not the moral police. If your husbands are here they’re probably not flirting. But if they are that’s not my problem. As long as everyone is respectful, I’m cool. Read our threads…they’re a hoot!
Bottom line, we’re adults and I treat everyone as such until they prove otherwise. You handle your house and I'll handle mine. And please keep your pointless emails.
As my Grandma says: Heartache don't hide. You don't have to go looking for it. It's normally staring you right in the face.
Coming Tomorrow:
The Space Between Things: Chapter Two by Reggi Harrington
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14 Responses to "Your Husbands Are So NOT My Problem!" 
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said this on 12 Jul 2011 5:51:04 PM CDT
Well said! I can only imagine what your inbox is like. :(
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said this on 12 Jul 2011 5:55:48 PM CDT
Lady, it would knock your socks off! Most of the mail is very nice. But there are a few that'll drive you to drinking.
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said this on 12 Jul 2011 6:48:49 PM CDT
Well said! If their dumb asses would have taken two minutes to check out the site they would be able to easily tell it's not a dating site. Even if it where it's not your job to monitor their husband's actions. If their husband's can't act right thats not your problem. They could have saved themsleves the wasted time and energy.
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said this on 12 Jul 2011 7:08:55 PM CDT
Thank you! I have enough problems handling my husband....why the hell would I take on the management of theirs? Seriously? Do we look like Ashley Madison?
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said this on 12 Jul 2011 8:05:34 PM CDT
Ladies, your husbands are, at worst, reading works of erotica written by women. Think about this. Is it such a bad thing that your husbands are enjoying a woman's view on sex?
If they were going to a Ron Jeremy blog, then you'd have something to worry about, and it still wouldn't be infidelity. |
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said this on 12 Jul 2011 8:17:43 PM CDT
LMFAO!!! WB, you nailed it!
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said this on 13 Jul 2011 6:57:04 PM CDT
My Goodness. I wonder if they have confronted their husbands at all. I love this site and so does my hubby. your site is the best thing since sliced bread to us;-) the stories are hilarious, exciting and sensual. It is also awesome that It has given me the opportunity to check out some other really awesome writers.
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said this on 13 Jul 2011 7:35:21 PM CDT
Aw, thanks Jenn! I LOVE our family of readers and writers to death. To put a country spin on it: Ya'll asses crazy! Seriously, I really don't consider the readers 'readers' anymore--you're family.
And the newbies love your feedback. It's not easy popping your head into the publishing industry or putting your work out for people judge. IRE gives them a place to say howdy before marching off to be slaughtered. :) |
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said this on 13 Jul 2011 8:47:25 PM CDT
When you think about it, its pretty hilarious. Those wives jumped the gun a bit and made themselves look like fools. If they really looked at the site, those women will really see people sharing a laugh, unloading their bad day and pondering life little foibles all under the guise of sharing a few stories. We all are really a bunch of new found friends at the end of a day asking, "So how your day?"
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said this on 13 Jul 2011 9:08:34 PM CDT
I know, right? The fools! Look around…we’re a gentle combination of writing and bitching. Yeah, we write but there’s a lot of ranting and rambling (hence the Youtube name) going on.
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said this on 14 Jul 2011 12:35:19 AM CDT
What really amazes me if the fact that these women (actually girls) are so wrapped up about what they think their husbands are doing they have overlooked the most important thing. If they took the time to take care of their husbands instead of bitching about what they might be doing, there would be no need to write immature emails about a site. I have shown this site to my husband and he loves it.
I wish women would grow up and take responsibility for keeping their husbands happy. Instead of bitching give your husband the blowjob the he wants and I guarantee he will stay home more. |
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said this on 14 Jul 2011 8:43:41 AM CDT
Speaking as a guy who hopes to have a wife someday, no. If the guy's a phillandering jerk, it doesn't matter how much you take care of him. The same is true of women, if they're going to run around on you, all the footrubs in the world don't stop it.
In other words, pay attention, take care, but don't expect to change people for it. That said, taking a moment to find out what is actually happening and not blaming the site for what hubby might be doing and, you know, *asking* him about it might be more valuable. |
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said this on 15 Jul 2011 10:44:54 PM CDT
Thanks Tracy I'm glad to be apart of such an awesome family. I forgot to mention Goodness I love the art!!!
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