My girls and I went out lingerie shopping today. So we’re in the fitting area being poked and pinned along with two younger gals. As the sales lady is fitting my bra one of the girls, who couldn’t have been anymore than 20 years old, starts complaining about her love handles and flat chest.

Ok folks, I’m 35 years old. I have a young daughter. I exercise and have, what I consider to be, a knock out body. Mind you I will never be 20 years old again nor do I wish to be. My husband and I have a very healthy relationship with my body. So why are these little teeny boppers complaining? I feel it’s because we have become of people that are never satisfied. We can be perfectly fine body wish and still want more.

The French women believe that if you feel sexy then you will be sexy. This goes for most European women. I look at my Mom; she’s one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen because she glows from the inside and works what she has. Here’s the challenge, stop putting yourself don’t. Understand that if you have a mate they love you for who you are and if they don’t then make it’s not them; it might be that you don’t feel sexy and that turns them off. So stop it!

One of the best lines I’ve ever heard in a movie is something like “No matter how beautiful a woman is there a man out there that’s sick of her shit.” The point is this….stop beating yourself up for not being younger, thinner, taller and shorter because it doesn’t matter. There more important things to worry about, try focusing on the pollution cause by the industrialization on China. That should take your mind off of those love handles.