Tryptophan...more please!
- By Tracy Ames
- Published August 17, 2009
Tracy Ames
Mrs. Ames is an international bestselling author of interracial erotic fiction and a former columnist for several newsletters and magazines.
A native of the San Francisco Bay Area, Tracy currently split time between CT & New York City with her husband, children and a host of pets.
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Okay, so I’d planned on diving into the “I was talking to my fellow author friends” conversation that I abandon three days ago but something more pressing has come up that I feel needs to be addressed. Male strippers.
Personally, I don’t care for them. I find the copious amounts baby oil or whatever they’re lubed up with downright gross. Toss my predilection for high heels into the equation, and you’ve got yourself a safety hazard!
I don’t want them near me much less touching me. I’ve discussed my phobia of all things slippery, sweaty, and dumpy-n-grindy in an earlier post, "Alright So I Was Wrong!". For those unfamiliar with the weirdness that is Tracy, it’s worth the read.
My girlfriend calls me while I’m out running errands yesterday. A few of her friends are having lunch at the female equivalent of a gentlemen’s club (don’t ask, don’t tell) and invite me to stop by. I immediately troll through my reasons to refuse but none seem plausible so I accept and set the wheels of fate in motion.
So, I get to the club, there’s a lethargic dancer on the stage doing more to induce boredom than stimulate carnal lust. I sit there waiting for the tryptophan from my turkey sandwich to kick in while my captors continue to taunt me with bizarre little dangling objects, aka male genitals.
Then a wiry, sweaty, eel-like ecdysiast starts a sort of vitriolic, shaky-shake, angry dance thingy in front of me…his eyes were filled with a mix of decaying shame and bitterness. I give him the content of my wallet with the promise of more if he just…stops…doing whatever it is he’s doing!
I can’t articulate to you, dear readers, how fast I exited the establishment without coming off like a total douche. Screw it…I got the hell out of there!! And if that makes me a skittish germaphobe then so be it. Go ahead, vote me off the island. I'll be in the corner if you need me.

Personally, I don’t care for them. I find the copious amounts baby oil or whatever they’re lubed up with downright gross. Toss my predilection for high heels into the equation, and you’ve got yourself a safety hazard!
I don’t want them near me much less touching me. I’ve discussed my phobia of all things slippery, sweaty, and dumpy-n-grindy in an earlier post, "Alright So I Was Wrong!". For those unfamiliar with the weirdness that is Tracy, it’s worth the read.
My girlfriend calls me while I’m out running errands yesterday. A few of her friends are having lunch at the female equivalent of a gentlemen’s club (don’t ask, don’t tell) and invite me to stop by. I immediately troll through my reasons to refuse but none seem plausible so I accept and set the wheels of fate in motion.
So, I get to the club, there’s a lethargic dancer on the stage doing more to induce boredom than stimulate carnal lust. I sit there waiting for the tryptophan from my turkey sandwich to kick in while my captors continue to taunt me with bizarre little dangling objects, aka male genitals.
Then a wiry, sweaty, eel-like ecdysiast starts a sort of vitriolic, shaky-shake, angry dance thingy in front of me…his eyes were filled with a mix of decaying shame and bitterness. I give him the content of my wallet with the promise of more if he just…stops…doing whatever it is he’s doing!
I can’t articulate to you, dear readers, how fast I exited the establishment without coming off like a total douche. Screw it…I got the hell out of there!! And if that makes me a skittish germaphobe then so be it. Go ahead, vote me off the island. I'll be in the corner if you need me.

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19 Responses to "Tryptophan...more please!" 
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said this on 17 Aug 2009 9:31:28 PM CDT
I am totally with you on this. Just the thought of a strange man shaking anything in my face, much less his family jewels...gives me a nervous tick. My friends laugh at me because nothing about a "supposedly" relaxing massage at a respectable spa relaxes me (I just don't like strange people rubbing any aspect of themselves against my body). The thought of a strange man..... rubbing his.......in front ....or around....my face......I think I am going to be sick!
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said this on 17 Aug 2009 10:08:30 PM CDT
OMG! I am on the floor. Both you and Olga are a mess! My first experience with a stripper was at my aunt's bachelorette party and I hid under the table. Yes I hid. The only thing I like oiled up are my elbows and WWE wrestlers...
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said this on 18 Aug 2009 2:07:58 AM CDT
OMG! See, I'm not the only one! It's nice to see I'm amongst good company. Stephanie, I understand why you's hide from a stripper. Hiding from strippers is my MO. Oily elbows, yes...oiled up wrestlers, maybe.
Olga, skip the nervous tick! The whole time we're sitting there talking, I'm thinking "balls in my face!, balls in my face!, balls in my face!'. This guy has his balls in my face!" There was no playing it cool. I was totally freaking out. |
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said this on 18 Aug 2009 2:02:00 PM CDT
Well it's good to know I'm not the only crazy hanging around this joint.
But the bachelorette party was hilarious. The whole time the guy is dancing people are periodically asking where I am. When the stripper finally finishes and leaves, I slink out from underneath my hiding place feeling defiled. I mean, who wants to see a tube sock flopping and gyrating around? I have stayed away from strippers or those who look like one ever since. |
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said this on 18 Aug 2009 1:49:09 PM CDT
Lol, ladies you guys rock!!!!! The only balls that will be in my face is my husband's, and for that, you bet i will have a new pair of Christian Louboutin shoes in the morning. I don't get the big deal with male strippers, the girating and other things are rather gross than sexy. I don't get turn on by it, ewwwww
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said this on 18 Aug 2009 6:00:30 PM CDT
Heidi, You ain't preachin' Nothin' but the truth.
Now, and more importantly, about the Louboutin's. Exactly how do you get you husband to agree to the pumps? Does the same strategy work for Jimmy Choo's? Please leave clear and precise instructions. A girl's gotta do what a girl's gotta do. (Lol -Just joking!) |
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said this on 18 Aug 2009 6:59:11 PM CDT
LMAO! You guys are killing me! I thought I was bad but you all have me beat hands down. I don't even know what a "Jimmy Choo" is.
Did I just end a sentence in "is"?! Holy cow, that's distrubing. I’m going back to the corner and gnaw on my shame. |
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said this on 18 Aug 2009 7:27:29 PM CDT
LMAO. Olga, thanks girl. When a man is crazy about you, he will do WHATEVER you ask him. My husband Randy will never say NO when it comes to sex. Two weeks ago, he had a nasty fever, i mean...Red eyes, cough like a gorilla and all( you know) he was like a baby. I could not take it anymore, so i gave him the best blow job ever. I mean, i sucked his balls and all...worse than a porno flick. Homeboy was healthy like a horse the next day and asked if i wanted to go to Bergdoff. That's how i got my third pair of Christian Louboutin pumps( black patent).
Trust me Olga, if you really want that pair of Jimmy Choo, you will KNOW how to get it. LMAO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Ummm...Tracy, shame on you. There is not a girl out there, who does not know " Jimmy Choo", they hurt like hell, but Sexy as Sin. Ask Olga |
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said this on 18 Aug 2009 8:26:38 PM CDT
Holy shit! Heidi, girl...I'm speechless....I don't even know what to say, lol! When have you ever known me to be speechless? I just...
Hey, Greg is a WASP and I have to go to him or Google half the stuff that comes out of Eva's mouth. Remember you had to explain the whole "T-Pain" bit to me! Yeah, Greg has been calling me NB (New Black) since then...:) |
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said this on 19 Aug 2009 12:12:54 AM CDT
Lol, sorry Tracy. I need to keep my mouth shut. I think i came off a little strong. Me and my nasty self!
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said this on 19 Aug 2009 12:42:05 AM CDT
Whatever! The blog is an open forum for us to speak our minds. Did you guys complain when I was ranting on and on about Cat-Vader or my crippling phobias or my trips to the market? No, you didn't.
I think I rant more than any one person should be allowed. |
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said this on 18 Aug 2009 7:48:49 PM CDT
Heidi, I see that am at the feet of the master. I can respect that. I hope you only use your powers for good. I may have to talk to you more about getting other necessities in a girl's life, Coach bags, in-house help once a week, a little Prada, a smiggen(sp?) of chanel. You know, a little of life's necessites-I don't want to be greedy. I KNOW I AM WAY OFF TOPIC-SORRY
This is just fun talk-Thanks girls for making me laugh!!! |
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said this on 18 Aug 2009 7:54:29 PM CDT
Lol. Yes i do use my pp( pussy power) in good terms. LOL
Anytime mama, give me a holla when u need some advice( giggles) I'm always here to help.lol |
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said this on 20 Aug 2009 4:13:46 PM CDT
hmmmm..interesting...so what should be done for a Caribbean vacation?
and yes the idea of SWEATY, smelly balls flapping all over the place is not appealing...don't get the whole strip club thing period... male and female..feel like all possible infections will just hop on me....like when u go to a daycare (another gross place for me) |
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said this on 20 Aug 2009 5:30:33 PM CDT
I'd hate to think what would have to be done for a Caribbean vacation...:x
I feel the same way about daycares. Why do the kids always look sticky? |
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said this on 20 Aug 2009 4:23:39 PM CDT
Comment: hmmmm..interesting...so what should be done for a Caribbean
vacation? and yes the idea of SWEATY, smelly balls flapping all over the place is not appealing...don't get the whole strip club thing period... male and female..feel like all possible infections will just hop on me....like when u go to a daycare (another gross place for me) |
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said this on 20 Aug 2009 7:24:43 PM CDT
I really had never been sick a day in my life....until I had four boys. Little kids are like a walking time bombs that are always going off on YOU!. Like clock-work, my kids get me sick every season (several times a season-I might add). Now, I have just one in Preschool and one in Toddler school. I think I see the light at the end of the tunnel.
I think we have to seek out Heidi's expertise regarding how to get a Carribbean Vacation from our significant others. Mistress, please tell us all-I am certainly all ears, and taking notes! |
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said this on 21 Aug 2009 1:16:59 AM CDT
Pen in hand for info on how to find a significant other I can tolerate...
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