Random Friday Shizz
- By Tracy Ames
- Published January 7, 2011
Tracy Ames
Mrs. Ames is an international bestselling author of interracial erotic fiction and a former columnist for several newsletters and magazines.
A native of the San Francisco Bay Area, Tracy currently split time between CT & New York City with her husband, children and a host of pets.
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Tom: Hi, my name is Tom. Your name?
Jill: Jill
Tom: Nice to meet you, Jill.
Jill: Nice to meet you.
*Time passes over small talk. No flirting*
Tom: I’d like to see you again.
Jill: Sorry. I’m married.
Why do women say “Sorry” before saying “I’m married”? Doing so makes it seem like she's sorry she's married. Or if her husband wasn't so nail-grindingly relentless in his quest for matrimonial bliss, the new guy might have a shot.
Either way “Sorry” isn’t the right prefix. Matter of fact, its freakin’ wrong!
Yes, men say “Sorry” also but I hear it more often from women and it bugs me to no end!
See? Random shit gets on my nerves. I know it shouldn’t but it does.
Back to your regularly scheduled program.
Jill: Jill
Tom: Nice to meet you, Jill.
Jill: Nice to meet you.
*Time passes over small talk. No flirting*
Tom: I’d like to see you again.
Jill: Sorry. I’m married.
Why do women say “Sorry” before saying “I’m married”? Doing so makes it seem like she's sorry she's married. Or if her husband wasn't so nail-grindingly relentless in his quest for matrimonial bliss, the new guy might have a shot.
Either way “Sorry” isn’t the right prefix. Matter of fact, its freakin’ wrong!
Yes, men say “Sorry” also but I hear it more often from women and it bugs me to no end!
See? Random shit gets on my nerves. I know it shouldn’t but it does.
Back to your regularly scheduled program.
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said this on 07 Jan 2011 5:27:26 PM CDT
Really it's about what is said on the picture. They are 'sorry' they are married b/c if he/she is so hot they wish they weren't so they could get with them. And if he/she pursued a little harder, it might be on. That way they don't have to guilty b/c they didn't do the pursuing. Aha, it's all a game in our heads. Yea, game know game LOL.
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said this on 07 Jan 2011 5:44:16 PM CDT
You're right. Some times it's a game and foks are really sorry they're married. It's like they're hopes the person keeps pursuing them--twisting their arm so to speak. But some times saying "sorry" is a knee jerk reaction. Hell, Eva apologized to our coffee table when she stumbled over it! What's that about?
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said this on 07 Jan 2011 6:46:47 PM CDT
Tracy that means you and Greg have trained a wonderfully polite, gracious child (something missing in today's society) even though she may need glasses. LOLOLOL
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said this on 07 Jan 2011 6:51:35 PM CDT
LOL! Okay! It was the funniest thing. She actually apologized to the table, then burst out laughing for having done so. She's so funny.
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said this on 07 Jan 2011 7:00:20 PM CDT
I believe some women are genuinely sorry they're married while others are just sorry for unintentionally stringing the guy along. More often than not though I think it is a knee jerk reaction.
This grinds my gears: Black women who are in relationships with White men, but they often tell people (usually black people) "yes I'm with a White guy but I do love Black men." What's that about? Are they ashamed? They sound guilty. |
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said this on 07 Jan 2011 7:06:50 PM CDT
Calvetta, I've seen that before. I personally never qualify loving Matt with I love black men. I may say 'I love all men' because really I can find a fine man in any color. LOL.
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said this on 07 Jan 2011 7:03:24 PM CDT
LOL. But yea people do those things sometimes to assuage their guilt. If someone is pressing me to do something, I can always say 'it wasn't me' or 'they were relentless' or the old 'I couldn't help myself, they kept pressuring me'. This a country that loves avoiding responsibility, it's become a national pasttime almost. LOL.
The next part of that conversation could have been- Tom: But you know that doesn't really matter, you're such a beautiful and sexy woman. Jill: Really. *bats eyelashes* Yea I'm almost 40, I been around a little. |