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<channel><title><![CDATA[Interracial Erotica - Comments for blog: The Loss of Intimacy]]></title><link>http://www.interracialerotica.net/erotica</link><description /><language>en-us</language><copyright><![CDATA[http://www.interracialerotica.net/erotica]]></copyright><generator>N/A</generator><webMaster>authortracyames@gmail.com</webMaster><lastBuildDate>Sat, 18 May 2013 13:14:36 CDT</lastBuildDate><ttl>20</ttl><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #1]]></title><link>http://www.interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/561/The-Loss-of-Intimacy.html#Comment5335</link><description><![CDATA[“It’s not that I don’t want sex or intimacy, I just don’t want it from you.”    That statement was the light bulb that flickered on which had me in a lawyer’s office. It was the realization that I was only staying in my marriage because of my son. Biggest mistake! when a parent does that he/she, to a certain extent, is putting the failure and/or success of the marriage on the child/children’s shoulder. Yep it had gotten to the point where I dreaded any level of physical contact, sexual and/or non-sexual with the ex. And that’s when all the accusation of my “infidelity” started because he felt if I was not giving “it” to him I must be dishing it out like a buffet to others. I do miss the benefits of being in a committed relationship, having someone to come home and talk to, holding hands, snuggling to watch TV, etc. but what can I say life goes on. I was told by a guy I seemed so unapproachable because there was something about me which screamed “Do not advance” lol BTW DO NOT SHORTEN YOUR BLOGS!!!<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Judy at 7:28 am, Mon 30th Aug 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Judy)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 30 Aug 2010 07:28:08 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/561/The-Loss-of-Intimacy.html#Comment5335</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #2]]></title><link>http://www.interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/561/The-Loss-of-Intimacy.html#Comment5336</link><description><![CDATA[Judy you're quite approachable...then again I don't have a penis. You're right, when parents stay on bad marriages for their childrens sake the weight is placed on the children. My cousins sat their parents down and asked the, to get a divorce. There wasn't any fighting but it was really uncomfortable.

Not wanting to be physically touched by one's spouse is a hint and a half something is wrong. Then come the accusation of infidelity. It's easier for some people to handle their spouse being a whore rather deal with them not wanting them. Sad really. You can work through infidelity...you can't work through "Don't f*ing touch me!"

Lady, I looked back at some of my blog post...talk about blogzilla!<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Tracy Ames at 7:54 am, Mon 30th Aug 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Tracy Ames)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Mon, 30 Aug 2010 07:54:05 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/561/The-Loss-of-Intimacy.html#Comment5336</guid></item><item><title><![CDATA[Comment #3]]></title><link>http://www.interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/561/The-Loss-of-Intimacy.html#Comment5340</link><description><![CDATA[You know this is a big issue with married couples with children with the men or women stating he/she does not seduce them or initiate the intimacy.
Unfortunately this is said more by men than women, it should not be the responsibility of ONE person in a marriage to initiate the intimacy so while one or the other is waiting the distance can grow or someone outside the marriage will turn on the seduction.

I try to tell my female acquaintance it is NOT slutty to seduce or role play for your man, definitely okay to tell him what you want and need when it comes to sex, to venture outside the bedroom. I appears some women are so hung up on what others will say about them if they acknowledge their sexual freedoms than what they need sexually.

I on the other had do not have that problem, when I want him the only response I am looking for is "Oh hell YEAH"<br/><br/>
(Comment posted by Carol at 8:47 am, Tue 31st Aug 2010)]]></description><author>no@spam.com (Carol)</author><pubDate><![CDATA[Tue, 31 Aug 2010 08:47:07 CDT]]></pubDate><guid isPermaLink="true">http://www.interracialerotica.net/erotica/blogs/561/The-Loss-of-Intimacy.html#Comment5340</guid></item></channel></rss>